Mini Seminar: Overcoming negative peer pressure

On Friday we kicked off the term with a Mini Seminar about overcoming negative peer pressure. The session was aptly led by Terry Mante; CEO of PEDNET (Personal Development Network), author and social entrepreneur. Terry has written three books; Winning with Confidence, Attitude is Everything and most recently, It's a Big Deal.

The session began with an open question: What is peer pressure? We got a few responses; it was interesting to hear people's different takes on the issue. Terry's advice on dealing with negative peer pressure revolved around three main points:

1. Refuse to conform
2. Recognise the consequences [of your actions]
3. Realise your contribution

He pointed out that for the most part, the problems that arise from negative peer pressure do not stem from the pressure itself, but because of the person being pressured. If you know who you are and are confident within that, it becomes difficult for anyone to pressure you into doing something you wouldn't normally do. Don't be afraid to stay true to who you are, and always remember that you were created with a purpose!

If you'd like to know more about Terry Mante, you can follow him on Twitter or visit his blog.